Stepping out of your comfort circle

Today I realise how sneaky my OG can be.. Tsk... I think the most sian part is i was left out of the picture. Haiz... To think i was the king of gossip. But sometimes its the things that are closer to you that you would leave out of your sight....tsk...

Aniway thats not the point. The point is... Someone i know is afraid to step out of their comfort zone. Which is a pity. I say. Do not let bad history hold you back. Look at what happened to me... But yet I'm hopeful. I know I will get a gal one day. A nice gal who understands me.... and I understand her(must add this part...if not my feminist frens will just pounce on me)... Pain is...unavoidable... in your pursuit of happiness. Like pple say... you will not know what is bliss until you experience pain. Something for you to contrast i guess. Don't blame the past for the pain. Cuz it teaches you to be thankful for the happiness you are receiving.

I guess relationships are like this... I had this analogy... Love is like drinking wine... If you really are into the relationship...its liken to taking huge amts of alcohol at one time... you will be high and you will be drunk...but when it all ends(if it ends..) you will suffer from the worst hangover ever... the pain of a broken heart... But if you are content to just take little sips... And take careful steps...you will not enjoy the exhileration and the joy and happiness that love brings...but if nothing comes out of it...you will not be too hurt...and still be able to brush it off simply. Ying Zheng had some variations to this analogy which I agree too...wahahahaha...

I am one who is from the former... I love with a passion...even tho im not passionate...and I do not really do much for the relationship...but I feel A LOT. Everything is in the heart...and I do not show it well... And thus when things fail...i get hit real bad.. But hey...that never stopped me from trying again....hahaha... so my advice to you folks...is to drink up man! Enjoy the moment... it is worth it... Do not spend your life pondering about the what ifs... And if you wait..the moment is gone...then you just prove yourself right...that it was not meant to be... So.. DO IT!!!

Carpe Diem..