Hang In There!!!

Do not spend your life pondering about the what ifs... And if you wait..the moment is gone...then you just prove yourself right...that it was not meant to be... So.. DO IT!!!

Carpe Diem..

Emphasis from last blog entry...

Anyway...no matter how old i get...im always amazed by this thing called love... Becuz its so hard to get 2 people to fall in love...and at the same time somemore! Tuff... thats why i treasure love alot... but its something that u have to dare to step foward...

BGR.....hmmm....

My take is...for those who have found one...go for it... for those who have not...be patient...and ur turn will come...

We shall see....

Stepping out of your comfort circle

Today I realise how sneaky my OG can be.. Tsk... I think the most sian part is i was left out of the picture. Haiz... To think i was the king of gossip. But sometimes its the things that are closer to you that you would leave out of your sight....tsk...

Aniway thats not the point. The point is... Someone i know is afraid to step out of their comfort zone. Which is a pity. I say. Do not let bad history hold you back. Look at what happened to me... But yet I'm hopeful. I know I will get a gal one day. A nice gal who understands me.... and I understand her(must add this part...if not my feminist frens will just pounce on me)... Pain is...unavoidable... in your pursuit of happiness. Like pple say... you will not know what is bliss until you experience pain. Something for you to contrast i guess. Don't blame the past for the pain. Cuz it teaches you to be thankful for the happiness you are receiving.

I guess relationships are like this... I had this analogy... Love is like drinking wine... If you really are into the relationship...its liken to taking huge amts of alcohol at one time... you will be high and you will be drunk...but when it all ends(if it ends..) you will suffer from the worst hangover ever... the pain of a broken heart... But if you are content to just take little sips... And take careful steps...you will not enjoy the exhileration and the joy and happiness that love brings...but if nothing comes out of it...you will not be too hurt...and still be able to brush it off simply. Ying Zheng had some variations to this analogy which I agree too...wahahahaha...

I am one who is from the former... I love with a passion...even tho im not passionate...and I do not really do much for the relationship...but I feel A LOT. Everything is in the heart...and I do not show it well... And thus when things fail...i get hit real bad.. But hey...that never stopped me from trying again....hahaha... so my advice to you folks...is to drink up man! Enjoy the moment... it is worth it... Do not spend your life pondering about the what ifs... And if you wait..the moment is gone...then you just prove yourself right...that it was not meant to be... So.. DO IT!!!

Carpe Diem..

The Secret Chocolate Pact

Today Ah loo made a pact with me. Basically...she is not supposed to eat chocolates for 1 week starting from 160806 0000H. Hahaha...

If she wins, I will bring her to walk either a) Chinese Garden or b) Do the trail from Macritchie to Bukit Timah.

If I win, I will buy her a lot of chocolate and she will finish it!!!! And hereby sinking further into the abyss!!! MuAHaHAHahaHAHAHAHA!!!!!

How do I plan to do that:
1) Buy mini M&Ms and throw into her food while she is not looking.
2) Eat delicious & exquisite chocolates in front of her.
3) "Kindly" offer my bar of chocolate when she feels hungry.
4) Ask her to open her mouth and then throw in mini M&Ms before she can close her mouth..(Believe me...she CAN fall for it...)

As you can see...My plan is flawless...except for one...

I do not really wish to see her defeated this time. For one...if she wins..I will spend less money... And second..i knows how it feels to be in this position. I mean...people are always so weird. Always telling you that you should diet...and on the other hand.. When they see that you are dieting...they will try to tempt you into eating... I mean...people are just SICK in the mind. So peps... If someone says that they are on a diet...dun be an idiot... dun say ,"Sure or not...eat leh eat leh..." Just to test the person's will power. I do admit I do that sometimes...But only when I feel that person is being excessive (in other words...he/she does not need to diet at all..so good news if i'm doing it to u...i dun think you are fat...except Jennifer...I just love to irritate her).

But for the entertainment....I will be the bad guy...yes...i will be the sick demented man...and I will get her to eat chocolate... just for entertainment... Watch this space for updates on the pact!